So what you need to do, is when you have your fur how you want it, select your character, and create hair for it using the hair module, and instead of outputting the hair as paint effects, output it as curves, then select the hair solver, then the fur node from the outliner, and in the rendering menu set, select in the fur section, and in there you will find a button to connect the hair to the fur. But before you do that, make sure you get teh hair curves working right and colliding with the table and all that good stuff. Then get ready to wait..........
Good luck man!
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